How to Become A Proactive Woman

How to Become A Proactive Woman


Always be IN CONTROL of your own life. This is your car, you are the driver. Would you trust just anyone to drive your brand new Bentley?


BELIEVE in yourself! Be confident in yourself ladies! The most attractive trait a man will notice in a woman is confidence in herself. Love yourself. Trust me, no man likes a woman who won’t eat when they go out because she doesn’t want the extra calories or won’t speak up. I am woman, hear me roar and pass the bread basket! (You can work out in the morning.) Don’t be obsessed with anything. Men hate obsessions such as won’t ever eat, won’t go for ice-cream, won’t ever miss her workout class, won’t try new things, won’t let her hair down. Be spontaneous and go with the flow once in a while!


PACKAGE your goods! Wear your grandma panties and flannel pj’s when he’s out of town. You always want to look and feel your best, especially for yourself. When you feel sexy you are more confident. Do your hair, makeup and package your goods! Believe me, if guys wanted to date someone who dresses like a guy, they would (and do sometimes!). Mix it up but always be feminine and sexy! If you’re going to dress in jeans and a t-shirt, make sure they are sexy jeans and a hot T-shirt!!


HAVE A GOOD TIME. Always remember to be happy and enjoy what you are doing. If you are not happy or somewhere you don’t want to be it will show! I won’t go to footballs games because I hate sitting in the freezing cold drinking beer and barely able to see the ball! I’ll be miserable so I just don’t go. He’ll have a better time without me and he know’s it! Find something fun for you to do during those times! It’s win-win for both of you. Focus on the things you both enjoy doing together. Don’t always just do what he wants to do because you will lose yourself. That is a ticking time bomb.


KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. The most important key to attaining happiness with a man is knowing what you want from him. Sometimes it takes a little trial and error but tune in to yourself and what you are truly looking for. Once you know what you want from a man it will be easier to find it.

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